3 cara menjaga mulut =)

assalamualaikum =)

so hari ni actually takdelah nak update blog pon.
However, sedang berblogwalking kat my cousin's blog, Yasmin
I found her new entry is the thing that I really want to said/write in the blog tapi each time nak tulis mesti terlupa..
so cara-cara menjaga mulut.
ini bukan entry kesihatan ye kawan2..*mentang-mentang aku budak aliran kesihatan cis!
ini adalah cara menjaga mulut dan lidah oleh Rasulullah daripada mencarut.
honestly I really hate orang yang mencarut tak kiralah jantina dia apa sekali pon.
tak hensem and tak cantik ok!
ada masalah ke aku mencarut kat lu? lu ingat wa heran? wa carut kat org len bukan lu pon..
masalahnya lu wat telinga wa panas?* dah2 bila lak aku guna bahasa ni..adoi!
aku mmg pantang and tak boleh mendengar perkataan2 tu..
paling jahat aku sebut pon adalah bodoh dan sengal..*astaghfirullah carut gak tu =.=
umi tak pernah ajar aku mencarut and aku tak nak anak2 dan keturunan aku mencarut so, aku takkan mencarut. InsyaAllah.

so macam mana nak jaga lidah, padahal hati ni tengah panas je tengok kucing tu kencingkan kasut anda yang berharga beratus tu?
or mungkin, kek secret recipe chocolate indulgence and butterpecan yang korang beli selepas mengumpul duit tak makan 10 hari tu kene kebas ngan adik korang?

follow this step:

1.DIAM
Dari Abu Syuraih Al-Khuza'iy ra mengatakan Rasulullah SAW berpesan

" Sesiapa yang beriman kepada Allah dan hari akhirat, hendaklah dia bercakap hanya perkara yang baik ataupun diam"

2. ZIKIR
Ibnu Umar, Rasulullah pernah berkata;

"Janganlah kamu banyak bercakap tanpa berzikir kepada Allah, kerana sesungguhnya banyak bercakap tanpa berzikir kepada Allah menyebabkan kerasnya hati, dan orang yang paling jauh daripada Allah adalah orang yang paling keras hati"

"Rasulullah bersabda, terdapat dua kalimah zikir yang paling disukai Allah SWT yang sangat mudah diucapkan tetapi sangat berat untuk diamalkan. Kedua-duanya adalah subhanallah wa bihamdihi( maha suci Allah dan segala pujian kepadaNya) dan subhanallah hil a'zim (Maha Suci Allah yang maha besar).

-imam bukhari

3. ISTIGHFAR

istighfar bertindak sebagai perisai. Sebagai penghalang untuk kita terus mengikut perasaan amarah kita. Bila marah, semua benda nak keluar. Semua yang buruk-buruk. Maka istighfar dapat menyejukkan sedikit diri kita dari terus mengikut hati. Isighfar bermaksud memohon keampunan. Astaghfirullah dan diikuti dengan penyesalan dalam hati. Rasulullah sendiri mengamalkannya sebanyak 100 kali sehari untuk mengelakkan keburukan dalam lidah.

p/s: aku tahu aku pon selalu terikutkan rasa hati ni..kadang-kadang bila marah memang aku jerit bak kata umi satu shah alam boleh dengar. Tapi sekuat-kuat aku marah pon, aku jarang keluarkan perkataan yang mencarut. Even aku pernah menangis bila ada family aku TERcakap aku bodoh sbb salah potong buah tomato *rolling eye*. Thus, aku tak jadikan mencarut sebagai habit. YEAH! its a habit atau bahasa melayu dia adalah satu kebiasaan. So, apa kata tukar habit anda yang nak mencarut tu kepada habit yang baik iaitu 3 bnda di atas..dan aku selalu ingatkan diri aku ni*aku dah sebut kat atas sebenarnya: UMI TAK AJAR AKU MENCARUT DAN AKU TAKNAK ANAK-ANAK DAN KETURUNAN AKU MENCARUT MAKA AKU TAK MENCARUT!

think~

"Ya Allah, please give me eyes that see the best in people, a heart that forgives the worst, a mind that never loses faith. Amin" (nur sulastri, 2012)

somehow I miss your blog su..hihi..

ble nak update quotes yang menguatkan diri?

:')

“Forgiveness is the fragrance that the flower leaves on the heel of the one that crushed it”

asrama dan aku!

assalamualaikum..

hacchhoo! hacchoo!

maaf, maaf..saya telah dijangkiti virus selesema..

dan bila selesema slalu nya otak ni berat sikit nak berfikir, but somehow, our body does not coordinate correctly with our mind kan? hihi

I guess, I am allergy with stressful condition..

stop merapu-ing dayah..just straight to the topic please!

ok, first of all, result SBP and MRSM dah keluar..

nak check kat mana??

err, err.. nanti aku tanya adik aku..huhu..

ok, if result SBP and MRSM keluar pon, what is the big thing on that..

takde related dengan life kau pon..

bukan boleh apply pon dayah oi..hihi..

this entry just a piece of thought for my sis and those little students who applying for asrama..

zaman kak dayah dulu..akak pon apply gak asrama ni..

sajalah konon-konon nak duduk asrama, berdikari kononnya..

unfortunate for me, I got rejected..

tapi back then, my UPSR results are only 3A 2B..kalau zaman sekarang setaraf 4A je..

which mean tak berapa nak layak, lagi-lagi sekolah bandar..ye dok?

frust? quite frustrated actually..

but aku cam tak kisah sangat je padahal mmg nak asrama walaupon abah tak nak anta anak kesayangan dia ni gi asrama..* serius tak tipu.aku ingat lagi abah mmg xbagi and aku tak tau kenapa abah bg adik aku pegi lau dapat..

then masa PMR, aku dgn penuh semangat, beli borang MRSM sendiri and isi sekali lagi..

time tu bersungguh gaklah... and again aku ingat lagi abah pon tamo bg jugak sebenarnya..*I dont know why! even aku ada ingat abah n umi borak lau aku dpt overseas cmne..and he didn't permit that. And I asked why sdgkan diorang sendiri study overseas dan aku dengan selamba cakap "umi boleh je pergi..napa nurul xboleh?" and Abah reply " tu abah umi yang bagi, abah, abah nurul xbagi.."

so how's my result? its only 6A's and 2B's..back then, it is a good result tapi persaingan masuk asrama tu tinggi gila..

so I just stayed at my old school. Lupa nak bagitau nama sekolah..SMK Sultan Salahuddin Abdul Aziz Shah (SMKSSAAS) atau dikenali oleh budak2 shah alam as sekolah seksyen 2.

but hoyeah! sapa kata budak asrama je boleh dapat result gempak2? budak sekolah bese tak boleh ke?

it doesn't matter sekolah mana pon korang pergi actually.

It just a matter of learning..selagi korang nak belajar and nak berjaya, korang boleh berjaya!

so my result for SPM?

7A's and 3B's. Dan aku budak aliran sains biology+ prinsip perakaunan.

bukan nak bangga dengan keputusan yang aku dapat.

Lagipun result camni sekarang berlambak.

In fact zaman aku pon berlambak budak dapat straight A's..

but aku just nak bezakan budak asrama and budak sekolah biasa.

budak sekolah biasa slalunya tak suka kena banding dengan budak asrama.

sbb people put such a high standard to budak asrama which budak sekolah biasa couldn't be able to reach that level and all that is just a LIE!

believe me, bila korang masuk A levels, diploma, matrix, foundation and etc, you will realize, there's no difference..

and asrama is just a matter of place.

nak berdikari kat rumah pon boleh. it all depend on you and how you were raised up.

For me, aku pernah sekali je masuk asrama.Honestly.

tu pon zaman matrix yang just for 10 month.

and now, aku buat degree and guess what? I am living at my parents house.

yeah! cam dak sekolah, pagi pegi sekolah, petang balik rumah..

the different is that I'm driving my own car!haha

UNTUNGLAH..~

LAME lah korang..aku duduk rumah pon, aku still reti basuh baju pakai tangan, reti masak sendiri, reti kemas rumah sendiri.

in fact time matrix dulu, bilik aku and almari aku mmg terbaik lah..hihi..*jth cinta ngan kekemasan almari sendiri..poyo je dayah!

I was raised with a bibik once. actually sampai aku matrix I still have bibik..

cume bila dah degree, my mom berhenti kerja sekejap before sekarang dia kerja balik, kitorg dah tade bibik.

so keje aku before pegi kelas is kemas bilik, masukkan baju dlm washing machine, kemas dapur lps sarapan..weekend adalah hari utk kemas bilik, mop lantai, basuh toilet and etc.

my parents bukan yg jenis spoiling their own daughters..

everything is DIY..

shopping pon my dad bawak pi tempat tu then, nah amek duit ni sorang RM** then shopping sendiri..abes duit tu diam je, no mnx tambah..huhu..

so that is how, I learn to survive my life. huhu..

so asrama aren't a BIG DEAL for me to learn berdikari!

life~

assalamualaikum.

happy chinese new year to my chinese friends.

I went back to Johor for the holidays and went to Johor Premium Outlet.

That place is somehow like small Gotenba in Japan.*owh I miss Japan!

bought myself Fossil's purple leather purse* i actually want a red purse but as long as it is not black or brown, then its okay.hihi

so how's life?

i find myself alive, alhamdulillah panjang lagi nyawa ni..

few things did come out for the past few days.

it is somehow miserable.

actually, I really dont know what to do.

hanya mengharap Allah menunjukkan jalan kebenaran.

sorry for those who hurt when I'm asking the truth.

I really need to know.

I am not the person who judge without giving everyone the chance to speak.

and, I learnt, tak semua orang akan terima apa yang kita buat.

penat.letih dengan semua ni.

betul, kita tak mampu puaskan hati semua orang.

'dalam hidup ni, ada banyak jenis kawan yang akan kita jumpa. Ada kawan yang kita boleh bawak minum kat kedai. Ada kawan yang kita boleh bawak jalan-jalan. Ada kawan yang kita boleh bawak sampai halaman rumah. Ada kawan yang boleh berada di ruang tamu kita. Dan ada kawan yang kita boleh bawak tidur sebantal dengan kita' (pak andak, 2012)

sedangkan kawan yang pernah tidur sebantal dengan kita pon boleh tinggalkan kita bila hati mereka tak puas dengan kita.

bukan mengharap semua orang puas hati dengan tindakan kita.

cuma mengharap, kawan yang mampu menegur bila kita buat kesilapan.

kawan yang akan ada dengan kita untuk menjaga kita.

kawan yang mampu jujur tentang kelemahan kita.

kawan yang mengkritik kesalahan kita dengan berhemah.

kawan yang ikhlas dengan setiap tindakan dia pada kita.

kawan yang mendoakan kita.

kawan yang gembira bila kita gembira.

kawan yang mendoakan kebahagiaan kita dunia dan akhirat.

hanya itu yang aku harapkan.

aku menerima seorang kawan bukan sebab dia sempurna, bukan sebab dia baik, bukan sebab dia cantik, bukan sebab dia punya semuanya.

tapi seorang yang mampu bersama-sama dengan aku untuk mencipta kesempurnaan dari sudut kita sendiri.

"pergilah rinduku hilangkan dirimu, tak sanggup menanggung derita dikalbuku, pergilah sayangku bermula semula, semangat cintaku membara kerana dia, tiada niatku"-izinkan ku pergi-kaer

keep it exclusive~

perempuan yang melayan ramai lelaki tidak sesuai dijadikan isteri..maka lelaki yang melayan ramai perempuan juga tidak sesuai dijadikan suami..lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan yg baik..untuk dapatkan yang baik, kita kena jadi yang terbaik dulu'

ok the first line is actually a quotes daripada ustaz Azhar Idrus yang sememangnya dah banyak di post kat fb..

aku just nak ulas sikit je about this here and there.

nak cakap lebih-lebih pon I know I dont have the knowledge yet..

in this case I want to make it general.

lelaki and perempuan yang layan kaum berlawanan secara berlebihan tak sesuai dijadikan pasangan..

in here, tak SESUAI bukan tak LAYAK ok..

people change, everything's change and for me people deserve to be given a second chance.

setiap manusia berhak untuk berubah and bertaubat selagi nyawa masih ada dalam jasad.

cuma, selagi ada peluang untuk berubah, why not change for good..

i didn't said it was easy..but worth trying to be one.insyaAllah..

I have two situation to be highlighted for this topic.

1. YOU

anda. cuba bayangkan, kalau korang kenal dengan someone yang asyik bertukar pasangan je..sampai dah xsure dia ni dengan siapa sebenarnya..sekejap ber'sayang' dengan lelaki/perempuan ni..next month orang lain pulak..kat fb dengan si kurus, dekat twitter dengan si chubby sket, dekat myspace dengan si gemuk, dekat friendster dengan si tinggi, dekat blog dengan si rendah..acane? kadang-kadang memang terang-terang dia dah wat stats in a relationship kat fb and everyone knows your lover tapi boleh komen or mesej ngan someone else using all the lovely words..it aint cool people. that's why I said, those lovely words should be used to your special one..you know what i mean.. atleast dont use it to every opposite gender that you know..it give you a bad impression.

2. OTHER

what if, you are the one yang buat all those thing..if you are a lady, you called every men 'dear/darling'.. then till one fine day, in the bright sunshine..(aku merepek) you find someone that you really want to settle down with..and at that moment, what will you think if he found out your relationship with all the men, how you threat them and etc. wouldn't he feel a lil bit not special to you..you've been using all the lovely words to them at the same time that you are relationship with him.. i know at that moment, its either you regret it or you still do the same thing and just told him 'that's myself? and dont bother cause you are the one I love?' will it still be special then? think about it.. however if you really changed, that's good..that's AWESOME..alhamdulillah..benda dah jadi nak buat macam mana..no regrets but do repent.. He/ She if meant for you will accept the new you..

as a conclusion: keep it exclusive.. If you really love a person, you want to settle down with them, you are serious..dont and NEVER make those lovely words unspecial to them..

bila..

assalamualaikum..

bila marah, cuba ingat orang lain pon bole marah jugak..

bila rasa nak mengamuk, ingat..orang lain pon boleh mengamuk jugak..

bila sedih, ingat..orang lain pon boleh sedih jugak..

bila nak mencarut, ingat..orang lain pon boleh jugak tapi suka ke kene carutan tu..

bila nak belasah orang, ingat, orang lain pon boleh belasah kita..

bila happy,ingat..tak semua orang akan happy untuk kita..

tapi..kalau semua nak jaga hati orang..hati kita siapa nak jaga..

kadang-kadang..kita terlalu sangat jaga hati orang..

sampai kita lupa nak jaga hati kita..

lupa nak bahagiakan diri sendiri..

kita berkorban untuk tengok orang lain gembira..

tapi diri sendiri??

hidup ni kadang-kadang mementingkan diri sendiri..

terciptanya kita pon berasaskan persaingan..

yang paling kuat, yang paling bertuah dan dengan izin Allah akan berjaya..

semuanya berasaskan usaha, tawakal, doa dan redha Allah..

sampai bila nak jaga hati orang.

sampai bila nak sedih tengok orang lain bahagia?

we choose to be what we are..

they are happy? they are success..so where are our happiness?

we seek for it..

so I choose mine and u choose yours..

i am selfish so what!

dah terlalu lama..

jaga hati manusia bukannya mudah..

umi ckp 'dlm hidup ni..kita takkan mungkin puaskan hati semua orang..akan ada manusia yang takkan penah puas hati dengan apa yang kita ada..that's life'

syukur dengan apa yang aku ada sekarang..

perasaan syukur tu je yang mampu buat kita lupa apa yang orang lain dapat yang kita tak ada..

alhamdulillah..

january..~

new year, new resolution..
never have the real resolution..
untuk aku, i just want to be better each day..
rugilah manusia itu andai harinya tidak ada perubahan daripada hari yang sebelumnya..

actually this post is for my dearest sister..
Siti Nur Khasanah binti Sheikh Abdullah who's celebrating her 17th birthday yesterday..
happy birthday!! sweet 17..
dah 17 tahun dah adik aku ni..
terlupa pulak aku dah nak 21 tahun ni..wuwu
rasa mcm baru je lagi masuk umur mcm tu..rasa macam tahun lepas je baru masuk form 5..
eh? form 5 lah..
so wish you all the best for SPM!
i know this is just the second week of school..
and yeah! you already been given so many homework..
welcome to the new world darling!
where time waits for no men..
dulu..(yeah, im in the mode of..zaman kitorang dulu..)
dulu, kak nurul prefect..lagi hectic and yeah! i lost some weight just from all the activities..
with all the event going on,
the studies, trials, mentoring activities, tuition(s), homework(s)!

yeah! its gonna be reallllyyyy exhausted..
but 17 is the most memorable memories* except when you are doing your A levels, matrix and etc at an awesome place..hihi..
all the friendship, the memories, school, uniform..
its...PRICELESS..
as time went by, you will miss everything..
friendship will be tested after you move out from school..
BUT..those who remains..they are SAHABAT..
and just like mine..i hope you'll be given one/two/three/more Sahabat..
hihi..
have a blast sis!..may Allah bless you..
and ofcourse I'll pray for your success!*nak pressure sket..ingat ko kene kalahkan my results..and I know it aint gonna be easy..the benchmark is quite high..sorry! hihi
owh, forget to said..
I LOVE YOU ! *its exclusive..I know..~

be strong!

assalamualaikum semua..
lama tak tulis blog as in the real 'tulis blog'
i mean the one yang semua orang paham apa yang aku tulis..huhu
sorry..i have a lil conflict with myself..
last week was really really a mood swing week for me despite its actually my last week of exams..seriously i think i've been crying for almost every day..
no one should know and yeah, who cares..
semalam, i opened my msu pharmacy club on facebook.
ada sata link which y lecturer, sir IB post on the wall last week kot.but i didnt open sbb exam..
it is 40 lesson for finding strength in hard times.
i will just pick a few points yang i would want to elaborate by my own.

1) you will fail sometimes
yes, i am wrong when i thought that i will and can make everything works accordingly. I am a person which in fact a perfectionist. I want everything to be according to what i planned it to be and yes, few times i fail. Zaman sekolah dulu, aku pernah menangis sebab result Physic aku salah kira and cikgu key in my marks as 49 which in fact aku dpt 65 and there is no way to change it because of the system. LAME?? yeah..why?I put myself in such a high expectation when I am in to the things deeply. I am really particular with the things that I really love till one day i realize that there will be few times that we fail, and Allah knew what's the best for us. i keep abah's word with me..'we can fail once, but not few times over the same mistakes.'

2) Emotionally separate yourself from your problems.
I am really good in hiding my feelings. I never showed it up to people. I can tell them how sad I am, but never show it.. For now, I don't actually have anyone who really know how i feel based on my facial expression. I can be crying inside of my room and once i step my feet out from my room i cut down all my emotions and smile. I keep being the person I am when I am with them. I am crazy when I am with my family and I am a friendly person with my friends..and that's what I showed them. Not anyone can see my feelings. I can show anger, sulk and happiness..but never tears. Somehow, this are the things that make me stronger in life and I can deal greatly with my personal life and student life.

3) Don’t make a problem bigger than it is.
kadang- kadang, thinking too much will make the problem grows bigger than its actually are. honestly I did that. I think too much especially when I am alone. BUT as time flew by, I managed to just keep it aside. No problem is so big that you couldn't handle it.. Allah takkan timpakan musibah yang takkan mampu untuk kita atasi. Everything have a solution, it only a matter of time and oppurtunity and choices.

4) giving up and moving on is two different thing
ayat ni macam dalam ombak rindu pulak kan..hihi..redha itu ikhlas, pasrah itu menyerah. yes, its actually two different thing. Sometimes in life kita kata kita redha dengan apa yang jadi dekat kita, think back..are we really sure that we are redha?? or is it kita pasrah? for time being I couldnt said that i am redha dengan apa yang terjadi.. I am pasrah. Pasrah dengan keputusan, pasrah dengan pilihan ni. I am lying when I said I can accept that my friend left me. super sad. but I know, time will make the feeling change. I am giving up..and I am in the step of moving on, ikhlaskan diri untuk terima that you will be happier without me.

5)It’s better to be hurt by the truth, than comforted by a lie.
This is always my life principle. I cant tolerate at all with lies. Lies will only make me think that I dont deserve the truth. I REALLY HATE LIES. How hurtful the truth can be, just tell me. I will be sad for a while but LIE will only make me sad forever. Seriously cant bare with it .. it kills me more than truth.

6) There will always be people who dislike you
This is what i learned for 2011.. Selama ni aku tak pernah tau aku ada haters. Unfortunate for me that this is the first time to know directly from a person mouth. It change few things between me and others. I starting not to believe people. People have the ability to make a smiley face in front of us and stab us on the back. It hurts a lot since I don't even know what I did to them. However, i learn to forgive..people deserve second chance if they prove to us that they'll change.

7) You are are better off without some people you thought you needed.
Allah had planned everything out for us. The moment I lost someone, He make me realized that there are a real good friend who had been there for me since ages listening to me and wipe away the tears. For so many time I repeat the same problem and the same stories to them, they never really bored and keep listening even though I know diorang sure dah malas nak bg nasihat yang sama..hihi..

8) You always have choice
yes, we all have choice. to stay sad or be happy. Its us to decide.

9)The end is a new beginning
Nothing in life is the end until u find the real end which mean, we are no longer in this world anymore. We are transferring to a new dimension, to the place forever after..whether its jannah or al jahim. Always think that no matter how hard things end, Allah will replace us with something new. Something that we never thought we will get and something so much better than what we've lost. InsyaAllah

10) Struggling with problem is natural part of growing.
we fall, we cry, we stumble on the ground. As we stand back, we are no longer the same person. we are much stronger and more careful in life. Life itself is a lesson. A place for us to be tested before the day of judgement. A test of iman and how strong our faith are after been tested with so many problems and temptation that will make us apart from the Almighty.

LIFE IS A JOURNEY THAT LEAD US TO ALLAH.

p/s: ok, cukuplah 10 ye..nak kene memasak sebelum adik2 yang lapar ni balik umah..kui3..

in my mind~

.unlock phone.

.message button.

.new message.

.typing.............

.thinking.

.search for the name.

.thinking.

.see the send button

.thinking.

.see the name.

.thinking.

.press.

.press the red button.

.do you want to save the message to draft?.

.no.

...................................

move on.

big step.

but why not starting with small little step.

i dont want to burden you more.