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Tuesday, January 17, 2012

keep it exclusive~


perempuan yang melayan ramai lelaki tidak sesuai dijadikan isteri..maka lelaki yang melayan ramai perempuan juga tidak sesuai dijadikan suami..lelaki yang baik untuk perempuan yg baik..untuk dapatkan yang baik, kita kena jadi yang terbaik dulu'


ok the first line is actually a quotes daripada ustaz Azhar Idrus yang sememangnya dah banyak di post kat fb..
aku just nak ulas sikit je about this here and there.
nak cakap lebih-lebih pon I know I dont have the knowledge yet..
in this case I want to make it general.
lelaki and perempuan yang layan kaum berlawanan secara berlebihan tak sesuai dijadikan pasangan..
in here, tak SESUAI bukan tak LAYAK ok..
people change, everything's change and for me people deserve to be given a second chance.
setiap manusia berhak untuk berubah and bertaubat selagi nyawa masih ada dalam jasad.
cuma, selagi ada peluang untuk berubah, why not change for good..
i didn't said it was easy..but worth trying to be one.insyaAllah..

I have two situation to be highlighted for this topic.

1. YOU
anda. cuba bayangkan, kalau korang kenal dengan someone yang asyik bertukar pasangan je..sampai dah xsure dia ni dengan siapa sebenarnya..sekejap ber'sayang' dengan lelaki/perempuan ni..next month orang lain pulak..kat fb dengan si kurus, dekat twitter dengan si chubby sket, dekat myspace dengan si gemuk, dekat friendster dengan si tinggi, dekat blog dengan si rendah..acane? kadang-kadang memang terang-terang dia dah wat stats in a relationship kat fb and everyone knows your lover tapi boleh komen or mesej ngan someone else using all the lovely words..it aint cool people. that's why I said, those lovely words should be used to your special one..you know what i mean.. atleast dont use it to every opposite gender that you know..it give you a bad impression.

2. OTHER
what if, you are the one yang buat all those thing..if you are a lady, you called every men 'dear/darling'.. then till one fine day, in the bright sunshine..(aku merepek) you find someone that you really want to settle down with..and at that moment, what will you think if he found out your relationship with all the men, how you threat them and etc. wouldn't he feel a lil bit not special to you..you've been using all the lovely words to them at the same time that you are relationship with him.. i know at that moment, its either you regret it or you still do the same thing and just told him 'that's myself? and dont bother cause you are the one I love?' will it still be special then? think about it.. however if you really changed, that's good..that's AWESOME..alhamdulillah..benda dah jadi nak buat macam mana..no regrets but do repent.. He/ She if meant for you will accept the new you..

as a conclusion: keep it exclusive.. If you really love a person, you want to settle down with them, you are serious..dont and NEVER make those lovely words unspecial to them..

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